Swinger Stories Room

Thursday, September 28, 2006

Cautionary Swinger Story

We all encounter swinger stories of people who got into the lifestyle supposedly looking to enhance an existing relationship, but were in it really just to score some more notches on their belt or add a few more names to their little black book.
It's important to keep in mind that swapping is primarily a social and very much couple-oriented activity. The ordinary social customs of meeting people and initiating a conversation are really not that different than at any other type of social gathering, and the process by which acquaintances become close friends is not that different either. The key social traits that tend to be appreciated in the community are responsibility, friendliness, flirtatiousness, open-mindedness, and most importantly stability with regard to one's primary relationship. Because it is meant to serve as such, I find myself getting aggravated every time I hear another swinger story of how a couple thought they were picking up a sweet and fun couple to interact with, and discovered that they are not even really together!
Same goes for newbies who inadvertently jerk around others while trying to decide just how far they are willing to go. As is the case with almost all human social endeavors, if you already know people in a particular community you'll probably be happier if you attend your first few events with these people so they can introduce you to others. If you do not like what you do not feel forced to participate. There is a good chance you might just be letting someone else develop different expectations. Waiting a little while and watching how others behave is also a good idea, as it is in almost any new social situation.
Remember to update us on your own swinger story!

Monday, July 31, 2006

Swinger Story Photos

Snapping pictures has always been a fun pastime for many people. And what swinger story would be complete without some naughty visuals?

It was difficult if not impossible to get a roll of film developed that had your more, let's just say, "intimate" shots on it. So bravo to whoever invented the digital camera! Now we can be wildly kinky without the fear of obnoxious photo clerks, prints being discovered in our closets or other unnerving situations- The freedom that they offer us is so liberating that they're truly worth the investment. If you haven't already done so, you should run out and get a digital camera today. And for those of you who already have one -- start putting it to good use!

To maximize your experience though, there are a few things to keep in mind. First of all, even a $100 camera can take decent shots that are good enough to show your friends. You don't need to buy a $600 dollar, 6-megapixel deluxe model that promises you the world. You can find great cameras for less than $200 that will serve you well. We still carry around a worn-out 2-megapixel model that works just fine for spontaneous situations. You never know when the "urge" might strike you or when you'll be inspired to take some kinky photos to go along with the wildest of swinger stories!

Be sure that your camera has certain features. A good budget camera should have an LCD screen on the back. This allows you to preview and delete unwanted pictures so as to not waste space on the memory card. Most budget cameras are capable of taking pictures of at least two or three megapixels, which is usually adequate.

The best benefit of having a digital camera, aside from taking risqué photographs, is the ability to be totally spontaneous. We especially love outdoor situations. We once took some beautiful nude shots in a poppy field while on vacation. Basically, if you can imagine a place, we've probably taken pictures there. And so can you! But you need to exercise a little common sense and caution, particularly if you plan to post your pics along with swinger stories online.

Tuesday, July 25, 2006

The Neighbor Swinger Story

I love reading the swinger stories on here, they make me feel very horny. One day last week I was reading one of these gems, one hand was pinching my nipples and the other was in my jeans gently stroking my clit. I was so turned on I didn't hear the door open and was in my own little world of pleasure when I heard a voice say, can I help you with that? It was my neighbor Joe, who happens to be tanned and very fit. I have fancied him for ages and fantasized about him but he is a decade younger than me and never thought I stood a chance. He said he had been watching me for a while and it was turning him on. I reached out and my hand went up his leg and under his shorts to stroke his cock, it felt fantastic, a hard veined shaft and a lovely big wet nob. His hands were inside my jeans stroking my wet cunt, fingering me as he sucked my nipples. We were soon naked and I was on my knees licking and slurping at his gorgeous cock, sliding it down my throat I couldn't get enough of it. My hands slid round to his ass and I started to finger his hole as I sucked him deeper. Suddenly he grabbed my head and thrust his cock in and out of my mouth, fucking it. We have fucked every day for the past week in all different ways, I just can't get enough of him. I decided to show him what I’d been up to while I was alone, and led him by the hand to the PC so hew could check out some swinger stories and perhaps get a clue. Luckily, despite his being gorgeous, Joe was hip to my hints, and that evening he brought home his friend Ruby, who was very dominant in orchestrating things, and swept us along into a delightful naked tea party in her backyard. Joe served us tea and cake naked, except for a pink bowtie we’d placed on him as decoration. Of course, we were all knocking back wine coolers and things were very relaxed. We were fortunate to enjoy a lovely threesome in the hot tub after all that cake and alcohol, and have now decided to share our swinger story with everyone.

Tuesday, July 18, 2006

Lindsey's Swinger Story

My partner and I are in our early thirties and have just bought a house together. While doing research for my women’s studies program, I came across some articles and stories on swingers, and called him over to read it with me. After reading it we just exchanged naughty, curious smiles. We were both wondering about what it would be like to have such an encounter with another couple

It wasn’t long before we’d settled into our new house and managed to organize everything. We invited over a couple who we knew from grad school, around our age. Both were good-looking, tidy and slender, just as we like. To welcome them to our new home, we’d prepared a dinner and rented a movie. After dinner, we chatted over drinks. Then, without checking with me, Bradley brought up the topic of swingers and told them about the story we’d read together. Much to our surprise, our conservative-looking friends admitted to being longtime lifestyle veterans, and before we knew it, we were all taking things to a very practical and obviously enjoyable level.

I’m not sure if it was the alcohol or the freedom that comes with finally owning your own house, but I enjoyed every single second! After that night, Bradley and I agreed it was quite possibly one of the best things we’ve ever done. We were still aroused by the experience for weeks later, and it manifested itself in the way we touched each other.

Our relationship is stronger then ever, not only that our sex life is even much better.

After sharing our story with a few other couples, we’ve even formed a swinger circle in our city, and have begun planning events and theme nights.

We couldn’t be happier!

Wednesday, July 12, 2006

Our Swinger Story

It was over sixteen years ago, after our youngest son was born, that my husband and I decided to take on all the swinger stories we’d heard from friends and women magazines, and dip into our own little adventure. June and Eric, our next door neighbors, had calmly shared their sordid adventures with us over hot dogs at a typical neighborhood barbeque. I have to admit, we were almost instantly turned on. Not to say that our sex life was boring, but the birth of five children had certainly slowed us down a bit.

We’d met in high school, taking the acceptable Catholic route by getting hitched about six months after graduation. We attended the same state college together as a married couple, obviously missing out on all those famed college sexual experimentations. Back then, if you’d told us that in twenty-something years we’d be deep inside our own swinger story, we probably would have laughed. Looking back, I understand how we might have felt a pinch of regret for missing out on the party. Luckily, we were very much in love and never let these issues get in the way of our relationship.

With the kids finally out of the house in college and the youngest at a prestigious prep school, we were finally able to be young again. Having sex in every room of the house, at any given time of day. We were a bit more spontaneous and carefree in our explorations, which of course led us to new flavors and new sights. June and Eric were the wildest of our friends, so naturally we were stoked to join them at one of their notorious celebrations. Walking into the room, there seemed to be a real sense of unity and warmth. We were treated like royalty, being fresh faces at this event. Contrary to what we’d imagined, there was no dark, sleazy vibe or even a sexual atmosphere at first. Towards the end of the evening, after imagining what kind of steamy swinger story I’d have to tell my sister the next day, we decided to go for it.

Sunday, July 09, 2006

A Swinger Story of Sharing

The first time I shared my personal swinger stories with Cheryl it was over coffee and blueberry pie at a small bistro in Georgetown. Cheryl and I had been the best of friends since we met in our church’s youth group in third grade. We had since each gone our own way, Cheryl moving to the other side of the country with her husband, who was employed by the air force. We’d always kept in touch, at first through letters and phonecalls, and later on through daily emails. Cheryl would fly in with her family about twice a year, and each time we would meet again, it would be overwhelming to discover that even though we were no longer physically present in each other’s everyday lives, our friendship was as strong as ever.

Cheryl had been telling me that she and her husband, Rob, had been going through some marital problems. Rob had been feeling like he was missing out, working in a base surrounded by young, unmarried men, who no doubt boasted and bragged about their endless conquests. Cheryl was feeling intimidated, and considered looking for a local marriage counselor.

I slowly lowered my coffee mug and leaned in closer. “Cheryl,” I began, “I am about to tell you a story. It is a swinger tale, involving my husband and myself…” My voice trailed off, halted by the terrified look on Cheryl’s face. I assured her there was nothing dirty or filthy about what I was about to share with her. On the contrary – I explained how the whole experience had brought us together as a couple and has become a sort of resin that helps maintain our bond with each other.

A few nights later, after Cheryl had time to think about what I’d told her, we found ourselves relaxing in the den with our respective husbands. Cheryl gave me a sly look, winking at me as she rose to dim the lights in the room. She began undressing in front of her shocked husband, and then approached me to undo my buttons. The four of us found ourselves on the floor, enjoying ourselves completely and giving into pleasure. Needless to say, Rob was no longer feeling bored or limited, and Cheryl and him returned to their home with a swinger story of their own.

Wednesday, July 05, 2006

The Story of Our First Swinger Experience

Hi everyone,

I thought it would be a splendid idea to kick off my blog by sharing the story of our first swinger experience:

It was a hot summer night and my wife and I had been playing with the idea of doing a threesome. We had always fantasized about how titillating it would be. Then one day we invited a friend of mine and his family to spend the night at our ranch. It was getting late, and the four of us stayed up watching classic movies while the kids slept in the downstairs guestroom. My wife served us cocktails and fruit to set a relaxed mood.

The atmosphere was terrific, and very similar to the kind of setting we’d illustrate while recounting vivid fantasy swinger stories to one another as a way to get turned on. As we laid in our couch and my friend and his wife in the other, I began to play with my wife's breasts. She immediately responded and asked me to lift her skirt in front of my friend who seemed excited. She undid the buttons of her pants and I started to please her. We decided to take this matter to the master bedroom. I started to mount her and she got hotter and hotter. She then suggested the idea of calling our friend into our bedroom and I agreed. She left for a second to call them in, and allowed them to at first watch while we played. This of course was our way of inviting our good friends to join us. It must have been a very awkward and unexpected twist of events, but we did something we had fantasized about for a long time, and made our swinger story a reality.